A Philosophy: Part IV: WOW - Worthy Of Worship

A Philosophy - Part IV

WOW – Worthy Of Worship

The things that are worthy of worship are
- Absolute Truths (Creation, Existence, Change, Destruction, Energy, Light)
- Eternal Phenomenon (Fire, Rain, Wind, Heat, Force)
- Eternal feelings (Love,  Lust, Anger, Joy, Sadness, Anguish, Greed, Passion, Detachment, Attachment)
- Eternal values (Peace, Justice, Calmness, Truth, Honesty, Non-violence, Cunning, Beauty, Skill)
- Sustaining materials (Earth, Sun, Moon, water)
- Life (in all its forms)

By 'worship an object', we mean
- Regarding it as important
- Respecting it
- Focusing attention on it
- Making effort to learn about it and understand it
- Finding practices, that are of value, involving the object
- Deifying the object in any form, of personal choice, without injury to others

By the above principles, one can visualize the worship of various objects in varying forms.  Some may worship an object by giving it a human form or a form of a mythical creature. One may use different words to describe the same object, in a different or the same language. One can ascribe other characteristics to make an object appealing for worship, easy to remember and differentiate itself from other objects of worship.

Not all people have to worship in the same form. One may worship through speaking, meditating, rendering art, music, literature, poetry, story to glorify an object of worship. One may worship truths and principles or values like Creativity, Peace, Honesty, Truth or Love wherever they are seen or encountered in reality or even as a character in a story. 

If we consider each object of worship a GOD, then we can have many gods. The object of worship represents the GOD. So, the real GOD is not a representation, but the value or principle which is the object of worship. A person exhibiting Creativity, or Honesty, or Passion or Skill becomes the representation of that value or principle which is being worshipped. That person is a deity of the moment. It is always the principle or value that is GOD, not the person or the character in a story!

The right way of worship helps us put into practice in our life and enjoy the pleasure of eternal truths, absolute truths and good values. It enables us to use our material world in a nobler fashion than we would otherwise.


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Of Lions and Mice, Of Men and Animals Really

Of Lions and Mice,

Of Men and Animals really!

There is a land where most men are called ‘Lions’! Women are called ‘Lionesses’.  All in the hope that they live up to the reputation of that noble beast - the King of the forest. You have surely heard of the last name ‘Singh’  which means ‘Lion’. There is ‘Kaur’, which means ‘Lioness’. This land is part of India, the northern part. Most famous among this land is the region of Punjab! The world knows the Sikhs, who all have ‘Singh’ as the compulsory part of their name. The women are all named with ‘Kaur’ as the compulsory part. This tradition is widespread across all of North India – from its west in Punjab and Rajasthan, through Haryana, Himachal, Uttar Pradesh, Madhya Pradesh, Bihar, all the way to Bengal! The name is written as ‘Singh’ or ‘Sinha’. It means the same. Singapore got its name from the Lion too! In Sanskrit it simply means ‘Lion-Town’!

From a look at Indian history, it is interesting to note that one courageous man in Punjab, offered to take under his wing, one male child (usually the oldest) from every family and convert him into a ‘Lion’ – a courageous and capable warrior who was universally respected and looked up to as a ‘Sardar’ (leader) in times of trouble or when invaded by outsiders. This lion was always ready to put himself and his life on the line for the general welfare of anyone in society. He was ever ready to sacrifice his life if the need arose. These lions raised the pride and self-confidence of a docile population that was used to being walked over, trampled upon and generally ruled by anyone who passed by with a few soldiers and weapons.  The reputation of these ‘lions’ grew over the centuries and it was rightly so! It was an honour to be called a ‘Singh’. The word of their courage, physical and moral grew to such an extent that people started to have ‘Singh’ as their family name all over north India, In Rajasthan, down to Gujarat in the West, Nepal, Pakistan, and up to Bengal and beyond in the East. 

The original Sikh community was and is still represented in the army in unusually high percentages and numbers. 

Of course, as time went on, the last name ‘Singh’ carried on regardless of the actual nature of many who carried it. All ‘Singhs’ did not turn out to be noble warriors. Many were farmers, traders and even menial workers. But the original ‘Singhs’ from Punjab retained their original reputation and do to this day – they carried on their distinct appearance – groomed, uncut hair tied up in a turban.  They stood out clearly in any crowd. Of course, there were other courageous people. These lions inspired large parts of the Indian sub-continent.

However, along with these lions there also lived a large number of rats! Men who should rightly be called ‘Mice’ or ‘Snakes’! Only, there is no such last name!  They are not distinct in appearance. It is all in their hearts. They grew in larger numbers and have dominated the politics and rule of India for a long time. Some are even named ‘Singh’, but appearances can be deceptive! Many that valiantly shout bravado and roar like a lion back home in India, in their own domain, become like timid mice (that will not even squeak) once they enter a foreign country. They will not raise their voice, leave alone their hand. They will quietly, put up with all kinds of insults, injustices and work quietly to make a life for their family. This is the predominant mentality of Indians!

It is strange that we use the names of animals to honour and insult other human beings. I am sure we all can identify among ourselves people who are –  Lions, Tigers, Bears, Donkeys, Jackasses, Dogs, Bitches, Foxes, Cows, Pigs, Rats, Skunks and Snakes. We use the name of a poor animal which lives a pretty honourable life. I suppose in the animal kingdom, the word ‘Human’ would surely not be a compliment – the animals may not have a word for the ‘devil’ but I suppose they could justly use the label ‘Human’!


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The Way To Defeat A Lion

There once lived a pride of lions in an ancient forest. The leader of the pride was also the King of the forest. He was known to be strong, fierce but fair and generally peace reigned in that area. There was a natural order of life, everyone took just as much out of the forest as they needed and that was OK. When someone went off the rails or drifted into excess, the King and his pride restored order. The forest enjoyed a long period of prosperity and became famous for its prosperity and good life of its denizens.  All species in that forest co-existed mostly in peace and mutual dependence. There chose to play a symbiotic role that benefitted their society and gave the best from their inner nature as a species. Even the sheep and goats from the nearby villages, which came to graze in some meadows adjoining the forest were safe from the lions. They knew and respected the rule of the humans who shepherded them. Unless provoked or in extreme situations, they lions hunted within the forest, when they needed food. The lion cubs even played with the little sheep. The villagers too respected the lions and their cubs and the rules of the forest. They knew one would not come to harm from another.
On the outer fringes of forest lived a pack of Hyenas and Jackals who ran a pack rule. They were powerful as a group and united for common benefit, but were given to excesses, meanness and survived by cunning more than might or a sense of justice. They were highly envious of the forest ruled by the pride of lions. They always coveted the abundance of the forest and wanted to take it over. They found it hard to do so by a straightforward attack. They tried a few times and had to retire in defeat and loss. 
One day, as the jackals held a gathering, one of the oldies came up with an idea. He said, “I think I know how to defeat the lions!”
“How?” asked one of the pack leaders.
“Have you all seen how the lions and their cubs are friendly with the humans and their cattle? The lion cubs even play with the little sheep,” answered the old jackal.
“Yes, we know! It is not possible to turn the humans against these lions,” said the other, “If anything the humans hate us. They respect the lions and the forest.”
“Would it not be good if the lions were like sheep?” said the old jackal, with a cunning smile.
“What?!! A lion is a lion and a sheep is sheep. How can one be like another?” exclaimed the pack leader.
“Just for a moment, imagine if the lions were to behave and think like sheep, how good would it be? The sheep are timid, and believe they need someone to look after and protect them. They trust themselves entirely to the humans who benefit from them and protect them as their property. If the lions were like sheep, they would be worse off than the sheep. The humans will NOT protect them – thinking they are strong and can take care of themselves.”
And so it happened. The cunning jackals befriended an ewe who had once lost a little one in the forest many years ago. Her little ones used to play with the lion cubs of the leader of the pride of lions at the banks of the river that ran along the borders of the forest. The lion cubs used to follow the little sheep, even suckle with them at the ewes. They were good friends and spent a lot of time together. Often the cubs walked back home late in the evenings. No one bothered them and the forest was safe for them. The cunning jackals asked their ewe friend to stay at the back of the herd and lead the cubs farther and farther away from the edge of the forest. They did not return to spend enough time with their own family and pride. They grew up thinking and behaving like sheep. So, over the next generation, when the cubs grew up to be adults, they did not feel or think like a lion. They thought like sheep! They did not have the self-confidence or pride in themselves. They ran away in fright at the sight of a pack of jackals! 
The cunning jackal’s plan was complete. That was the end of peace and prosperity in the forest. It became a jungle, all animals looking out for only themselves. There was no longer any security. Every animal looked at the other with suspicion, which was further fed by the jackals and their cohorts. The forest fell into ruin..
This is how a truly wise old saying  came into being – “The way to defeat a lion is to make him think he is a sheep.”


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Winners and Losers

Winners And Losers

                                                                        

It was during my first year in the USA, as a student, that I first heard some person refer to another person as a ‘loser’. This girl we knew had been treated badly by a very popular and talented boy that she regarded as her boyfriend. He was a champion athlete and apparently from a very well-to-do family. He had won many trophies and some of the fame had gone to his head. Finally, all her friends suggested she dump him and move on. I knew both and honestly told my friend, “I think he does not take you seriously now and has definitely treated you badly. It does not appear that he will change towards you. You should definitely consider calling it quits and move on. It is better that you know now, earlier than later. It would be been worse if you had gotten married. I don’t think he deserves you and you don’t deserve to be treated like this.” Another girl, a friend of this girl said with feeling, “Just dump him! He is such a loser!” Everyone chimed in and repeated it. Finally, the poor, sad girl said it with great vehemence, “Yes! I have decided. I am out. He is such a LOSER and I am going to tell him so!!” A cheer went up.

Earlier growing up in India, I had read the expression “You are a loser!” or “He is a loser” when reading literature. It had always struck me as odd and I felt I did not understand the cultural context in which it is said and what it meant. Now, I had heard it first hand as a neutral observer knowing what had happened and as it was said spontaneously. It still struck me as odd. I realised that an Indian in India would have said something different – words to the effect “You are a nasty or bad person and I don’t want to have anything more to do with you”. It was only after having lived in the USA for a while and experienced the dominant culture there that I understood how and why it is said so. ‘Loser’ was being used as an ultimate offensive put-down word, meant to hurt the feelings of someone, to induce a feeling of worthlessness. It was a deliberate, cruel, psychological attack. But it would only have an effect on someone who thought the same way. I realised it would not have the same effect on the intended target from another culture, who did not base their self-esteem on being termed a ‘winner’ or a ‘loser’.

The way we understood winners and losers in India was – in most situations and competitions in the world, there is usually, technically, just one winner (an individual or a single team), all others are losers. Unless there are just two competitors, there is always a majority of losers and a small minority of winners in any competitive arena. Another way of winning was through sheer luck, as in a lottery or draw. Winners in this had no more talent or skill than the rest, so losers were just not lucky!

 Most of us in the world, by an overwhelming majority are ‘losers’ and perfectly, happy, good self-confident people. While there is honour in winning, there is no dishonour or shame in losing. Dishonour or shame came from not playing by the rules. One would never call someone a ‘loser’ as a put down in the India that I grew up in India when we grew up. It was hurtful to call someone a ‘bad’ person, a ‘dishonourable’ person by citing their offending acts that were beyond dispute.

I understood why the people in the USA use the term ‘loser’ as a derogatory one. It seems to stem from a culture where ‘winning’ is worshipped, applauded and valued. It has been for a long time and over a period of lawlessness (might is right). The actual means of winning was not considered important to remark on. All dishonour vanished when someone ‘won’. The ‘losers’ were the unfortunate ones. This seems to seep deep into the culture of the USA and the culture and outlook that emanates from it. Everyone wants to be a ‘winner’. They even say this in coaching and at school when they want to boost morale. They give prizes to everyone and say “Everyone is a winner!” It seems rather illogical. Why not accept that only a few will really ‘win’ on merit or luck and that is no negative reflection on someone who does not?

I note with regret, these days, when I often see many Indians use the same term “You/He/She is a loser!” They are all trying to ape the people in the USA. It is so incongruent with reality and our culture, where many ‘losers’ were revered, looked up to, admired and respected as saints or leaders, because they were honourable, good people!

What happened to such simple, clear words such as ‘bad’, or ‘evil’, or ‘nasty’ that could be used more accurately? 


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Amar - A Striving For Immortality

Life seeks to be immortal - to exist always. It seems to be its most important imperative.
We humans share with all other living creatures, the drive to continue our species/lineage - the best attempt that life can come up with as an approximation to living beyond a single lifetime. However, we seem to have an added and unique(?) motive force driving us in our lives - a striving for 'individual immortality'.
We exhibit awareness of our limitations in one single human body and yet seek to live beyond it. It is all too apparent to what extremes we will go to try and keep this body living as long as possible. Medical sciences and its practioners have always held a special and favoured place in society. Beyond this physical approach, we try other devious methods - to live in the hearts and memories of those who will outlive us in human form. We strive to be exceptional fathers, brothers, husbands, lovers and leaders. We gift love, material  wealth and power to those we favour in our wills as we face the inevitable exit. We build monuments to ourselves or statues. We fund scholarships, park benches and hospital beds in our wills. We desperately hope to live as fond memories for a period beyond our body.
Often, we try approaches other than simply pleasing others - we try to acquire name and fame or even notoriety in the hope that we will be remembered, even if not fondly. Some like the thought of annoying others even after they are no longer in this body! Some aspire to spiritual perfection and not being born again so that they will not die again - one way to be immortal!
Yet others seek to conquer countries, the highest mountains, the steepest slopes, the wildest waves, spine-chilling dangers from the depths of the oceans to outer space, frontiers of knowledge, pinnacles of art, music, skills from archery to sculpting. All, so that some moments in their life can have an added meaning, which might carry on for a little longer after their lifetime. Is this not an instinctive reach towards a small semblence of immortality?
I write. So what do you do?



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Some "Perspective", My Child!

Some "Perspective", My Child!

A Monologue:

 What a parent might want to tell a child, but find it very difficult

My dear child!

You are a young teen, right?

Do you have a job? No, you don’t?  Ha! I knew that. So you don’t work help support your family, right?

Have you ever worked, earned and contributed to your family, until now? No? You have not?!! I see! I knew that already!

I see that you still have a lot of things you claim as your own – your own clothes, your own computer, your own room, shelves, jewellery, shoes, books, games, radio … Your room is chock-full of stuff. More stuff than you will ever use. You realise that all of it has been practically given to you, with some excuse of love – as a gift, as a ‘necessity’ or purchased with ‘your’ money, which itself was given to you under a pretext of pocket money, money for some simple chores or some occasion – Christmas, birthday, Easter, New Year…

You are fed, clothed and taken care of every day, right? You are given more than what you really, really need, right? You are given that with love, much love. You play tennis, learn to dance and have memberships on websites. They are all paid for, right? You are taken out for treats, eating out, movies, shopping for gifts for your friends’ birthdays, all paid for and done with love, right? Do you feel the love?

Do you think you are better off than the child of a refugee in a camp fleeing from persecution or violence in some part of the world?
Oh, You DO think you ARE better off? Good! I am happy you can see that!

Do you know that the father of that child in the refugee camp loves his child, just as much as your father loves you – not an iota less! That child’s real needs are not less than yours. Really! To survive and thrive, you both need exactly the same amount of food, clothes, shelter, care and love at a minimum.

The poor refugee father cannot provide even that minimum. Your father is able to do better. Can you see that? You do? Good!

Do you believe you should appreciate what you have and be thankful for that? And be happy? And be cheerful? And grateful that you are so much better off than hundreds of millions of children around the world?

Are you? Are you appreciative? Are you thankful, grateful, cheerful and happy? How do you show it? Do you show it to your parents?

Maybe your father is not so rich that he can provide all that you want. Maybe your friend’s parents are richer and give her more than you have. Maybe she has better clothes, fancier shoes or T-shirts, the newest electronic game and a better room, all to herself. Maybe you feel miserable when you compare yourself to her. Maybe you don’t feel like sharing something of yours with your own parents or siblings at home, because you feel it belongs to you and you should have absolute control over it.

Are you miserable? Are you sad? Do you feel like sharing or not sharing with others?

There is so much your parents want to do for you and to give you. There is really no end to what all they would give you if they could. They would grant your every wish, almost.

But do you know what they MOST wish to give you? What they would rather give you even if they had very little? Or what they would like to give you especially if you had a LOT of stuff?

My dear child, the following is what your parents would most like to give you:

-          They would like to give you a sense of appreciation and gratitude for what you have.

-          They would like to give you sense of grace to accept that they cannot give you everything you like and that you may never have all that you desire in life.

-          They would like to give you a perspective in life so that you can still share what you have with others willingly, with grace and good cheer.

-          They would like to give you the maturity of not being upset when they ask you to do with less than you would like.

-          They would like to give you their best and most unconditional love! Sometimes, that means giving you a perspective in life so that you become a better person and free yourself from a lot of avoidable misery.

Do you feel the love, my child? Do you feel it? Don’t be miserable, be happy!



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Back to the good old days and good old ways

Back to the good old days and good old ways

I have been thinking deeply about how to solve the Crimean situation, the Syrian crisis, the China-Japan and all international disputes – all of which are either already violent or threaten to break into great violence. I realise we need to go back to the good old days and good old ways of sorting out such issues with minimal bloodshed. It appears we have lost our way and failed to learn from the examples of our ancestors. They would truly hang their head in shame looking at us now.

So, here’s how I suggest we go about it.

Whenever two countries express a disagreement over an issue or over a piece of land, we organise a fight - No! No! Don’t jump to conclusions and jump the gun (the starter’s gun, not the killing kind). We have a nice, well- appointed ring or stadium and schedule a well televised and supervised fight between its two leaders – No substitutes allowed! The two presidents or prime minister or whoever is the supreme leader, must wrestle, box or fight each other to the finish, or until one of them ‘cries Uncle’. The whole show should be televised the world over and people allowed to bet. This will encourage goodwill between the two peoples, even if their leaders disagree vehemently.

Once a combatant wins, all simply accept that person’s rights over the dispute and move on. This would also be a great way to have domestic elections and referendums. Anyone, who wants to, can challenge an existing official or leader to a fight, a bout or a duel – both provided with the exact same agreed weapon (unless otherwise agreed by both parties) else, it should be unarmed, one-to-one combat.

This would be truly fair, sensible and along the lines of a time honoured tradition of millions of years. Look at how the wolf pack or a pride of lions choose their leader. The animals still have the common sense not to go commit genocide and mass-murder. Our own human ancestors practised this clean, nature’s way of settling disputes. Only willing participants will need to fight, those that dare not fight for their rights have to simply accept the outcome. What could be more sensible than that? How often we tell each other - “If you are not willing to fight for it, forget it. You don’t deserve it!”

 We have strayed from the honourable path. No wonder our ancestors would be turning in their graves.

Now, I want to see Obama versus Putin on prime time TV to settle the Ukrainian crisis, since they seem to be the real players in that crisis. Anyone taking bets? Or willing to?

Keep in mind that Obama has a long list of scheduled bouts since the USA has put itself in the position of staking a claim of national interests in all corners of the world.

And the meek shall inherit the earth…


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